The R.E.A.L. Services

R.E.A.L. offers consulting and coaching services to support you in achieving what you want from your life and for your partner, family and children. We work with either the autistic or non-autistic partner.

Make Your Life What You Want It To Be

I have 21 years of personal experience with autism and marriage and a lifetime of experience with autism and close family relationships. I have been consulting and coaching neurotypical, non-autistic neurodivergent, and autistic individuals managing neurodiverse marriage and divorce since 2017.

I offer relationship services, divorce services, autistic parent coaching, and court expert witness services. I support my clients in whatever decisions they make -- staying married, getting divorced, or finding other suitable arrangements. I help them prevent expensive high-conflict neurodiverse divorces whenever possible, saving them a LOT of money in attorney fees along the way. And, whenever I can, I help autistic parents maintain positive relationships with children during and after divorce.

I have a master's in psychology from Harvard University where I conducted some of the first quantitative research on neurodiverse marriage in the world, receiving the Director's Thesis Award for my work. I am a trained and ICF-aligned coach and will make YOUR sessions about YOU.

I self-identify as a high body empathetic, or a neurodivergent with a high level of body empathy. I am not autistic.

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Anne MacMillan, MLA

Founder of the R.E.A.L. Neurodiverse™ 10-Step Family Systems Approach, Speaker, Researcher, Consultant, Coach, and Educator

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